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I dont know...

Why people or even friends always asking for a request from me? I didn't even put like i accept any request or what. Did they think i have work or even tired? or even there might be a family problem? Nope. They think i'm too good that i can even finish it on time. Its not really easy to finish it because it needs time and ideas...

I'm tired from being too easy on them... I just hope i can relax more


Rocknote June 18, 2009 at 10:15 PM  

That's because they don't understand about you and you are being too nice ==a

You can explain to them when they want to request, it's important to take care your time.

ROtacon June 18, 2009 at 10:50 PM  

I understand. I agree with
Rocknote. You may have to
explain and take some time
to relax before getting
back up. Take my exemple.
I just finish first chapter
of my newest fic. Now I have
to do the second chapter I
know how long It's going to
be with the investigation
and after do the writting so
I took some days off but I'm
soon going to continue.

If you're feeling tired take
some time off until you feel
ready. Those request can wait
until you feel ready to do it.

Namine June 18, 2009 at 10:54 PM  

well, i cant. If i accept it...i will soon forgot about it. And, i really dont have time for that.

ROtacon June 19, 2009 at 12:17 AM  

I see. This is a difficult
dilemma to resolve. If you
stop you're going to forget
everything you have in mind
but in another way you don't
have time for that. It's
hard to remember. I
understand you. It's often
happens to me. I guess both
Rocknote and I are worried
but I believe you found a way.
Sorry if I can't be helpful but
I believe you.

Namine June 19, 2009 at 12:21 AM  

its ok but thanks ^^

ROtacon June 19, 2009 at 12:36 AM  

You're welcome.

ancode June 19, 2009 at 2:26 AM  

Well that is something that happened to me in the past as well. Actually, although I asked you lots of "commisions" I always feel uneasy when doing so. If you notice it, I am not the kind of guy that ask others to draw things for him.

The reason because all keeps on asking request are 2. First of all because they see you draw for people, and second because you use to accept lots of them. Actually it is nothing related with understanding you or not. the fact is, when someone takes requests, then there are people that try to contact with him/her to get "free pics". And after that they forget about the artist, the artist dont mean a thing for them.

I know what is it, is the real reason because I dont really like going to forums by now. I have bitter sweet memories from those years in Rockman forums xP.

my awnser to that was to annunce "I dont take requests, nor trade or similar" (sometimes I make exceptions but only with people that demonstrate that are real friends). Since I said that, people stop bugging me.

Tiruvee June 23, 2009 at 6:22 PM  

One simplest way is to say a good firm rejection